relationship with a mexican girl that does not speak english?

this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn’t communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?


  1. Well, in my opinion, if you want to know whether she likes you or not, you should ask her IN THE RIGHT MOMENT if she likes you or not. Let it not be via telephone or any kind of messenger; do it personal. You will see her reaction. You should be able to judge whether she likes you or not; well, I think so (lol). When you decide to ask her if she likes you, do it after you two have had lots of fun or maybe at a special restaurant. Let’s say after you guys been bowling, eating, or whatever, as soon as she is about to enter her house (assuming that you walked her all the way to her house door) say to her, “Espera (wait)”. Then you hand her a piece of paper that says “¿Me quieres? (Do you like me?)”. I don’t know what kind of paper. As long as it has the message on it and the paper isn’t crumbled up, it’s cool. So do that. It’s either that way or at the table in a special restaurant.

    Also, keep on taking her to places. Ask her where she would like to go. She will get the point that you like her. Now, if she starts to put excuses on not wanting to go out with you somewhere, then she probably doesn’t want to go out with you. This is life. But I really do think she likes you because she kissed you and “made the move”. No girl is about to do that just because they bought her a pair of shoes or whatever. If she didn’t like you, she would have just said thank you and goodbye. You be the judge.

    After vigorously meditating on why she has been acting so strange or rather, not letting you know for certainty whether she likes you or not, or has not determined to let you know she likes you, I found out why this peculiar act might be occurring. I think it is because, first of all, both of you CAN’T even communicate with each other, WITH ALL YOUR RESPECT. Secondly, she might be thinking that you are buying her all these stuff, inviting her to places, etc. because you just like her physical NOT her real person; what’s inside. Finally, she might probably want to marry you but there are a few problems: She is a Mexican, you’re not; her whole family is Mexican; yours isn’t; she is poor, you’re not; she isn’t a citizen, you are; and she feels strange being in that situation especially when both of you can barely comprehend each other.

    Hope this helps.

  2. well it could be difficult if she doesn’t know english and you don’t know spanish, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make it work!! she sounds like a good girl, and i hope it all goes great. you both will just have to compromise sometimes and learn each others language.

    some date ideas:

    1. go to the beach for the sunset. you don’t need to talk if you don’t have to, and girls love romantic things like this.

    2. take her on a picnic with food that she likes from her culture. you can do outdoor activities and stuff.

    3. go to a football game and (sorry i dont know if there is football in mexico or if it is played the same way) you can explain the game to her

    4. go to a movie. this could be difficult cause chances are you will want and english one and she will want a spanish one, but again, compromise.

    good luck!! you should definately go for it.

  3. mexican girls love to have lots of babies, so if you are into baby making going for it! It is almost like the indians are taking back what we got from them(since mexicans and all other latin ethnicities are half spanish and half indian).


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