weird relationship with mexican girl that speaks no english?

this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn’t communicate very much either after we kissed. i then asked her out to go shopping after a month and she said yes. i bought her a few things at the mall and when i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good catholic girl. she is very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?


  1. After vigorously meditating on why she has been acting so strange or rather, not letting you know for certainty whether she likes you or not, or has not determined to let you know she likes you, I found out why this peculiar act might be occurring. I think it is because, first of all, both of you CAN’T even communicate with each other, WITH ALL YOUR RESPECT. Secondly, she might be thinking that you are buying her all these stuff, inviting her to places, etc. because you just like her physical NOT her real person; what’s inside. Finally, she might probably want to marry you but there are a few problems: She is a Mexican, you’re not; her whole family is Mexican; yours isn’t; she is poor, you’re not; she isn’t a citizen, you are; and she feels strange being in that situation especially when both of you can barely comprehend each other.

  2. of course she likes you… you could buy me all the clothes in the world.. if i didnt like you i most certainly wouldnt kiss you.
    the fact that she makes the effort to translate messages speaks volumes. go for it!!

    chantelle m

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